Is your relationship with your in-laws strained and you wonder how to handle awkward situations? In this episode Dr. Leman covers some practical things you can do to help let out some of the tension.
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Yes, there are plenty of strained in-law relationships out there. It is reality.
How do you best deal with these, and model a relationship you want to have with your kids someday when they are adults?
Watch out for the “should-er”!
The Should-er is the person who is always telling you what you should do better, differently, or now.
Have you ever tried this response?:
“Wow! You are the best! You are offering to clean up that flower bed? I was thinking about what we would do while you were here. That would be great! It is so kind of you to volunteer!”
Or maybe it is your mother-in-law who “shoulds” on your cooking.
“Great! I will have you take care of the birthday dinner! Just let me know if there is something you cannot find in the kitchen.”
Your Plan:
1. Be attentive.
2. Wait for the cheap shot.
3. Turn it around.
4. It will tame them when you put them to work.