If my 18 year old lives at home, but goes to college, can I expect him to help around the house? Should I hold my child back to give them a better chance in school? Dr. Leman answers these questions with his usual wit and wisdom.
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Question #1:
18 year-old at home (Audio)
When you have an 18 year-old living at home, they may see themselves as adults who do whatever they want, whenever they want. They need to be mindful that you are letting them live at hour house. If they do not have the gratitude and relationship with you, then you can tell them it is time to go find a place of their own to live.
Dr. Leman’s Answer:
It is very important when you have an adult child living at home to make sur they give back to the family.
Here are some ways:
1. Physical work-handyman mentality. Yardwork. (Even girls can do these things)
2. Pay bills online for you.
3. Clean house.
Question #2:
Valerie (audio) Do I hold my 6 year old back a year, even though he seems to grasp all the concepts?
Dr. Leman’s Answer:
Generally, holding back young boys is right on. Their development is a little slower.
If he is grasping the concepts, I would be careful not to overreact. As long as the teacher has no problem with it, he could proceed.